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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
THE_DOMINATOR
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Vapaach
Finland18 Posts
It used to bring me down a lot, but now I kinda think there is time for that as well. I guess I'll know when it's time. | ||
HighTemper
Canada0 Posts
On October 09 2011 16:07 almerr wrote: I recently went on a date with a girl that had so much in common with me, it was crazy. We went to see a movie, went to have a drink and talked for hours, but the next day she tells me that it just didnt click for her. Eventho we both had fun. I was probably expecting too much because of the similarities but still it hurt a bit cos I was pretty sure she'd want to continue. She told we could be friends and Im fine with that I guess too but still .... EXACT SAME story as my recent one!! We could go on hours and hours for every topics we brought up (well, except SC:BW...). I always had the thought that she's actually the female version of me. And it hurts so much because I know I probably would never find another one with so much resemblance. It is scary that when you think something only happens to you, there is always someone out there on this planet experiencing the same. On October 09 2011 17:42 Tommie wrote: I know one thing: as you get a bit older you won't fall in love so easily so when you do and it isn't mutual it hurts like hell. This. Teens probably won't understand until they're mid-20's. | ||
Mazaire
Australia0 Posts
http://www.flickr.com/photos/garrettchan/4067098911/ | ||
craz3d
Bulgaria0 Posts
And to those guys who find it hard, once you get past the first couple of girls you'll realize chicks aren't a big deal and you'll hit the ground running. The catch is that the longer you wait the harder you'll get rid of that learned helplessness that you have with women. So don't fucking wait, take balls in hand and get er done. | ||
jellyfishpizzas
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On October 09 2011 15:47 Mr. Nefarious wrote: Unfortunately, most of the better looking girls are extremely selfish and vain. Drop these girls, looks are only fun for the first month. Find the girl you find attractive emotionally as well as physically, despite what other people might say or think about her. not exactly true. some really attractive girls have been through hell and high water with relationships as well, and might sometimes be looking for a nice guy  so go for it dudes! | ||
Cel.erity
United States101 Posts
On October 09 2011 19:01 almerr wrote: I kissed her at the end of the night and i was left with a weird and a bad feeling. Didnt feel like she was into it. Exactly how it turned out. :| You probably don't want to hear this, but it means they are not physically attracted to you. Find a girl who is, or re-evaluate the way you look and what she's looking for (looks aren't all genetics, there's also hair, clothing, attitude). It doesn't mean you're ugly, either. Girls are really weird about their preferences. But yeah, anytime a girl says "It's just not clicking" or "I think I like you better as a friend" or something, it is 99% of the time physical. | ||
Salteador Neo
Andorra1 Post
On October 09 2011 19:55 HighTemper wrote: EXACT SAME story as my recent one!! We could go on hours and hours for every topics we brought up (well, except SC:BW...). I always had the thought that she's actually the female version of me. And it hurts so much because I know I probably would never find another one with so much resemblance. It is scary that when you think something only happens to you, there is always someone out there on this planet experiencing the same. This. Teens probably won't understand until they're mid-20's. For me it's the opposite, I had my first gf at 17 and it was the longest relationship I've ever had (around 22 months). Of course when we broke up it hurt like hell. After that, every disappointment has hurt less because I've gradually started to don't give a fuck about it anymore. And it has been 5 years from that already. Also I noticed every nice guy I know is growing more of a douche because they realize so many douches have a gf while we (me included) don't get any love. Not like douches get any real love, but at least younger girls might look at you and you don't feel like a stupid loser when a project fails xd | ||
Disquiet
Australia0 Posts
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NexUmbra
Scotland0 Posts
But I agree with the fact that the good looking girls are all really annoying :p I've never been in a relationship, I just have no desire to be in one. I'm not asexual or anything as there are girls I would bone the shit out of, just don't want to go out with them. | ||
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